We Left the City and Never Recalled

You're not alone if you ever dream of a fresh start in the country. Hear what it resembles from three households who really made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dumping city life and moving to the nation? Maybe you have actually spent weekend trips skimming the local genuine estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summer town in Maine. I began photographing these individuals and interviewing them about their victories and challenges in transitioning to nation living. The job took flight instantly-- clearly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me, however. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can find out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers discovered a quirky home in the Berkshires at a third the expense of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were residing in what most New york city families would consider a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop home in a desirable Brooklyn area. It was enough area for their household of five, with no concern of a rent hike. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for a recognized artist and was only able to produce his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, an innovative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and started dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired idea," keeps in mind Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with a fantastic little school," states Shawn.

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Residing in a village in the nation was a good response for us," says Kenzie. "We're steps from a post workplace, library, vehicle mechanic and a basic store. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is comforting. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to mean empty and huge."

Instead of continuing to work hard to even more the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art company. Providing up their constant city earnings while taking on the costs of winter heating and caring for an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't picture going back to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their home is like walking into one of Shawn's narrative paintings. On a typical day, their daughter, Honey, might greet you in the yard with a pet bunny, their boy Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other boy Odie may provide to perform a magic trick. They have actually gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to transform their cottage into a comfortable, eccentric wonderland.

The kids have a lot more flexibility to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and volunteering at the library down the street. And they've all noticed, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you're out of the frustrating scale of a city. When my mom passed away, individuals we didn't know well left whole meals on our deck."

They love the natural setting of their brand-new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the peaceful he needs to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What many individuals do not know is that, looking back, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived most of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his spare time when his partner, Mark, got a task that required the couple to move to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little anxious at first, he was thrilled at the prospect of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

And he now recognizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I've constantly wanted to move to the nation," he says. Many of my family is from rural locations in Cuba, and I felt very at house there."

Moved to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this town would receive them, however they have been happily shocked. St Louis has invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a reputable member of the community and-- given that the inauguration-- a town star.

It's been a modification. "After that honeymoon stage, the first thing that started to scold on me was needing to drive everywhere," says Richard. And shopping is challenging: "I reside in a resort town, so I can get sushi, however I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he also missed going out: "In some cases you simply desire to dress up and feel amazing-- and there is no place to do that. I have actually grown out of all my matches living here." He likewise misses out on the privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their whole life, and you understand their kids, where they matured ... and they understand whatever about you. It's lovely, however periodically Mark and I will wish to head out to go over something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of battling the components, I had to make decisions about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," states Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I initially came here for.

After moving to the country, Richard at first continued to work remotely on agreement engineering tasks, but the less expensive expense of living in Maine allowed him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And since 2013, he's been able to work nearly entirely as a writer, leaving his engineering career behind. He has actually composed two award-winning memoirs and various poems. He has taught writing workshops all over the world and just finished his very first fine-press book, Borders. Numerous weeks prior to he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he famously practiced his poem to my site an audience of snowmen in his front yard.

He gives the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has provided him space and time to focus on his writing. And possibly more notably, it has actually finally given him a location that seems like home.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise company challenge turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers ran and owned 11 companies in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker area, a flower designer shop and a play area for young children, simply to name a couple of. All this in addition to raising four ladies under the age of six. They valued their busy, complete lives but stressed that the affluence of Silicon Valley would offer their daughters a manipulated perspective on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table restaurant called Bumble but had a hard time to source fairly raised meat. This led them to a brand-new potential endeavor-- running an animals ranch that might provide meat to their restaurant. They explored the Sharps Gulch Cattle ranch in the prairie river valley of Fort Jones, California, a brief drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, however without the insane sticker rate of land more detailed to the Bay Area. The residential or commercial property had 2 homes, one a historic Victorian in desperate need of repair and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They leapt in and acquired the home in 2013, wishing to one day find a way to transfer to the ranch complete time.

Moved to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' original strategy was to work with ranchers to run the service. Joe and Ashley would drive up on weekends so the girls might invest time running totally free in the outdoors. "We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in broad open spaces in a more rural neighborhood," says Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land at some point. After turning up every weekend for a couple of months and discovering a gem of a community here, we rapidly decided this was where we wished to raise our kids. We sold our services and moved up the day our earliest daughter completed kindergarten and have been all-in ever given that."

After four years of effort, the Duggers have actually built an effective pasture-raised meat business. They sell their products online, in their historical brick-and-mortar store in Fort Jones and at pop-up markets in Sacramento when they go back to visit. Searching for more methods to earn a living off the land, this year they launched Five Ashley Retreats, where they host women at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes. This January, they're opening a dining establishment in Fort Jones.

There are no weekends or vacations off, however they spend a lot more time together as a family now, working alongside one another. The Duggers don't have the benefits, tidy clothing or totally free time they had in their previous life, and have had to end up being more self-dependent: "In the city, I could get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. "However in the country, I've needed to adjust my expectations. Everything moves a little bit more gradually, but residing on a cattle ranch implies you can construct anything you can picture yourself, which is more satisfying than working with somebody to do it."

Another reward is seeing their women grow into brave, independent and hardworking free-range ladies. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe like to mix a cocktail, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front patio to enjoy their daughters run totally free in the lawn.

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